Anal Sex in Accordance with God's Will
Are you saving yourself for your wedding night? The Devil
wants you to fail, that’s why he puts stumbling blocks in your way. But
God wants you to succeed, and that’s why he has given us an alternative to
intercourse before marriage: anal sex. Through anal sex, you can satisfy your
body’s needs, while you avoid the risk of unwanted pregnancy and still keep
yourself pure for marriage.
You may be shocked at first by this idea. Isn’t anal sex (sodomy) forbidden by
the Bible? Isn’t anal sex dirty? What’s the difference between having anal sex
before marriage and having regular intercourse? Let’s address these issues by
debunking some myths about anal sex and God's will.
“I thought the Bible said anal sex was a sin.”
This is a common misconception. Anal sex is confusing to many Christians because
of the attention paid to the Bible’s condemnation of homosexual acts. However,
it’s important to realize that these often quoted scriptures refer only to
sexual acts between two men. Nowhere does the Bible forbid anal sex between a
male and female.
In fact, many Biblical passages allude to the act of anal sex between men and
women. Lamentations 2:10 describes how “The virgins of Jerusalem have bowed
their heads to the ground,” indicating how a virginal maidens should position
themselves to receive anal sex. Another suggestive scripture tells of a woman’s
pride in her “valley” (referring to her buttocks and the cleft between them) and
entices her lover to ejaculate against her backside: "How boastful you are about
the valleys! O backsliding daughter who trusts in her treasures, {saying,} ' Who
will come against me?' (Jeremiah 49:4) And in the Song of Songs, the lover urges
his mate to allow him to enter her from behind: “Draw me after you, let us make
haste.” (Song of Solomon, 1:4)
“Isn’t anal sex dirty?”
The Bible says, “To the pure, all things are pure.” (Titus 1:15) The Lord
created your body, and no part of it is imperfect or unclean. God also created
our bodies for pleasure, and anal sex is just one of the many ways, including
standard sexual intercourse, that we can enjoy this pleasure and share it with a
partner.
Although the anus is used for elimination, in reality it is not as dirty as you
think, especially after a shower or bath. Elimination is also a natural process
of our God-given bodies, so our conception of the anal area as dirty has more to
do with our own psychological hang-ups. If the idea of direct contact with this
area is still distasteful to you, the male can wear a condom as a barrier
“If you’re going to have anal sex, why not just have regular sex?”
This is a good question: If you’re going to have sexual contact before marriage,
why not just go the whole nine yards and have regular sex? There are many good
reasons for having anal sex instead. The first reason is practical: having
conventional vaginal intercourse can lead to unwanted pregnancies. While it’s
true that the Lord bade us to “be fruitful and multiply,” (Gen 1:22) the Bible
also counsels that “For everything there is a season, and a time for every
matter under heaven.” (Ecl. 3:1) Pregnancy outside of wedlock can have dire and
life-altering consequences for all those involved. Having anal sex allows you to
greatly reduce this risk.
Second, for a young woman who has never engaged in sexual intercourse, having
anal sex allows her to preserve her virginity (i.e., maintain an intact hymen)
until marriage. There is no greater gift that a bride can give than to offer her
pure, unsullied maidenhead to her husband on their wedding night.
Finally, anal sex allows both partners to save the most intimate and
powerful
sexual act, that of face-to-face vaginal intercourse, for their mates in
marriage. This type of sexual relationship represents the most powerful union
between a man and a woman, and so it rightfully should be reserved for one’s
life partner. Fortunately, you can engage in anal sex prior to marriage and
still be able to share the deeper, more meaningful act of consecrated love
through vaginal intercourse with your wedded spouse.
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